Voices & Stories Computers Are Crucial to Connection


By Anonymous • Posted on February 24, 2021

Mr Romero received his computer in January and has been using it for a month. Before COVID 19, he did not have a use for a computer, just his phone. He could go and meet people in person. Now, he uses the computer to join meetings with other veterans and join classes with other service providers. He called his computer my ’best friend.’ Mr. Romero is so grateful that he is able to share this life experience with friends. He suggests our programs to other people with disabilities in need. Because of this program, he feels his overall well-being has drastically improved; he now has a connection with the outside world that he did not have prior to receiving his computer.

Testimonial from M. Romero, a Simi Valley resident and consumer of Jaydon Gaines - Community Living Advocate 

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Our Community Living Advocate in Santa Barbara has worked with a consumer since 2017. He has been homeless since that time, sometimes sleeping on a couch at a friend’s apartment, sometimes sleeping in his car or just on the street. In 2017 we helped him sign up for all the waiting lists for subsidized housing that he was eligible for. We explained that the wait is typically several years long. We always let him know when a new opportunity for affordable housing came up. Finally in March of 2021 the consumer had reached the top of the City of Santa Barbara Housing Authority section 8 waiting list and received a voucher. This was a major milestone but the housing market in Santa Barbara is currently extremely tight, meaning there are very few apartments available that are under the current housing standard of $2015 for a 1-bedroom apartment. The ACC made multiple housing referrals from rental lists. Then the consumer on his own found a landlord who was willing to accept his voucher. Unfortunately, the Housing Authority turned it down because it did not meet their criteria. By this point, two months had passed and the Housing Authority gave him a 2-month extension. The ACC made more housing referrals. Then the consumer received a call that there was an opening at the Bradley Studios, a property built by the Housing Authority. The consumer was familiar with the property and was more than happy to accept the offer. He moved into the apartment in late June and is now more or less settled. He finally has stability in his life and can take care of several pressing health issues that require him to have secure housing for recovery. It has made a huge difference in his life.

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It’s stories that enable us to connect; stories that allow us to see and know each other without anger, fear, defensiveness and resistance. And thus, it’s stories that I’ll be telling in my upcoming book entitled, See Us, Know Us: Profiles of Disability (formerly Living Our Disabled Lives.)

This book will profile 30 diverse individuals with disabilities. Each profile consists of a portrait, taken by Natalie Brescia, a short biography, and an original poem that speaks to each person’s unique experience with disability.

After working as an Educational Consultant and Disability Educator for ten years, I felt that the resistance to learning about equity and inclusion was growing. In spite of my best efforts to design experiences that focused on growth, learning, and connection, participants in the training sessions that I led felt upset, embarrassed, ashamed, and sometimes blamed for the inequities and stratification of our society and communities.

While it’s not necessarily bad for people to experience these feelings, I found that most want to avoid them and that this desire for avoidance was evident in growing resistance to being vulnerable and open to growth in these settings.

There was one exception. When an individual in the session told a personal story about their experience as a member of a marginalized group, people listened more openly. Those hearing others stories were not defensive, they didn’t feel the need to push back, challenge, or discredit the speaker. Instead, they were able to listen, gaining new understandings of the lives lived by those who were different than they were. Often the people that they were listening to were friends, neighbors, and colleagues, and it was easier for them to accept and reflect on the experiences of these people because they knew and cared about them.

Stories allow us to understand and connect with each other. While we may see differences between ourselves and others, when we hear and tell stories, not only do we come to better comprehend each other’s lives, we also develop empathy. We can be different and still care about each other. When listening, we look for connection, and this enables us to find these similarities and connections in spite of differences.

I thought a lot about this as I considered how to continue to advocate and educate. This power of storytelling was true for me as well. When I shared my story, others would listen and ask questions, interested to learn. I too learned so much from the stories of those in my training sessions and those with whom I collaborated. Their stories helped me to be a better person, a better member of every community of which I am a part, and a better educator and advocate.

I believe that stories can be transformative; building deep understanding of and compassion for one another. The purpose of telling stories of people with disabilities is not to have others pity us, not to have others be inspired by us, but rather to recognize the complexities of our lives and to see similarity and difference in the lives that we all live.

I do also hope, in reading the stories and the poems that I’ve written, that people will gain a better understanding of why and how our world, the physical and philosophical, needs to change to be more equitable and inclusive, so as to support the participation and contributions of us all. In this way, this book and these stories are ways to continue to do disability advocacy. Please join me in telling our stories.

Look for, See us, Know Us: Profiles of Disability available in 2026.

Jenn Chassman Browne
https://newground.us/

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How has the Disability Disaster Access and Resources Program changed your life?  

Ever since the Thomas Fire this has been in the back of my mind being worried about the electricity going off and all of a sudden PG&E referred me to you and there was an overwhelming amount of peace. It gives you a deep peace to know you’re not subject to the whims of the weather. You can never tell about the unknown factors. You can watch the weather all you want but the reality is you need to be prepared. 

How do you feel about how ACC has helped you prepare for disasters and emergencies? How did you feel before?   

It's like a miracle happened to me. That's the way I feel. In the beginning I couldn't believe it. I didn't believe it for the first week or so. It's wonderful, I don't know how to describe it, it's beyond words at times. Before planning with ACC there was nothing and I explored everything to find assistance. Unless I had $5,000 to buy a battery there was nothing for me and I felt frustration that the winds could make them turn the power off. It's nice to be able to do something about it. Before planning it made me feel powerless. It gave me power in this situation to get the planning.  

What is different now that you have the backup battery and disaster plan?

It's peace of mind I guess. It's being proactive instead of waiting for the situation to happen and seeing what help you can find. This program is safety and gives you a nice warm fuzzy feeling.

"ACC isn't like a government agency it's like people helping people. It's real help by real people."

-Michele, Consumer of Lauren Utterback- Independent Living Advocate

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